Thursday, June 26, 2014

Research, Research, and Weed

I never thought I could be so involved in daily research and never get bored.  In fact, some days I get so frustrated when I can't find new things to read.  Thank heavens for the wonderful bloggers I have found, the groups I have joined, and the people who are so free with their advice and good wishes.

Conflicting airline and customs rules can make a person crazy.  Especially when it concerns forms that you need and fees to pay that will keep you out of a country.  It is so important to cross every t and dot every i.  Visas depend on it all being perfect. Get a form filled out, send it here to get it processed, get it back, forward to another city for more processing and get it back all in the 10 day limit before flying out.  On my!  Does it ever work?  That's scary.

Then to decide what to pack!  Two suitcases will have to hold everything you will need and weigh less than 50 pounds.  When you are excited about a journey and happy about your decision life seems like a fun journey.  Until it is time to whittle your possessions down to 2 suitcases.  Is this what they mean when they say "Nothing is perfect"?

Enough whining!  I have had a very good week with friends here that I am so lucky to enjoy.  And I have made new acquaintances that I hope will become friends soon.  I have met some very warm and sharing people and I am grateful for the advice and warmth they have extended.

Go U.S.A.!  And Happy Fourth of July America!

Wednesday, June 11, 2014

My How Time Flies

It is funny how long or short a time it takes to make a life-changing decision.  Then there is the realistic time that it will take to accomplish what you really are excited about doing.  But to be planning ahead for a year or more is really difficult.  There are days when you feel that you must hurry.  Then there are days when you think "there is nothing I can do yet".  So making more lists is the only action available.  And yet you know that the time will come when you thing "why did I not do more ahead of time"  The moral of the story is that long range planning is the pits.                                                                          

I guess I should at least admit that our plans involve a trip out of the country.  For 2 adults who have never needed a passport this is an exciting thing to do.  One of the reasons for the far-out planning is the financial part of the trip.  But the day will come when we will be able to tell all our friends and family how reasonable priced international travel can be.  That is all the details I will reveal for now.

So, I am spending some part of each day researching details, reading blogs, and trying to decipher the conflicting information that is out there.  It is also hard to face the fact that while there are so many things to be excited about, there are also so many things that are different or are missing where you will be going.  I think the long wait will help accept what you can not change.

 Cuenca Ecuador

Monday, June 2, 2014


Apparently I forgot that I promised to do a better job of updating this blog.  Apparently I forgot I had a blog.  I know that I have done fun things, made new friends and even learned a few things so I have no real excuse.

I am beginning an adventure (I think) for the first time in my life so this blog will be the story of that adventure.  Just the thought that I might be able to do this has taken up all my time, thought, and anxiety for the last week or more.  But when all is said and done the excitement outweighs the anxiety so I believe that my daughter and I will begin this adventure together.

There will be lots of hurdles to accomplish this journey and some of those I will discuss here and hope it may be an example to others to pursue a dream at any age.  But in the meantime I will also concentrate on enjoying the little things that come about every day.

I will share the everyday things until "THE ADVENTURE "is closer to reality.  Hope you enjoy the journey with me. Until then I am sharing a look at my tiny new gardenia bush.  I have three of them and they smell like heaven.